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Red

I am further along in my sitch but also know about entitled WASs. We are here for you.


H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...
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I'm very glad to see you here again, Rednail. Please follow V's advice: keep posting no matter what. We'll be here.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16
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Hey Red,

V mentioned you to me. I am watching you sitch.

The hardest thing right now is being able to detach so he does not hurt you. I can’t say what will work for you, but for me exercise (lots - good for seratonin and destroys cortisol). Talking to friends and NC.

I have little to add now. But I am reading and will help where I can.

None of us are perfect. I am not. Never beat yourself up. Just do your best to be wrong. Try mindfulness apps. Many are free.

Take care.

Surfer.


M46/W40/D8/S6/T20/M12/Separated 6/2016,W takes kids
Issues2009
Wpartying w/g.f's2013on
EA2013PAdeniedWleavesMBR
ImeetAP/EAhalts
VariousBDDates
MFCourse
WSpew
EAresumes I halt
Wrages
DBIng4/2016




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He iphone predictive text. Tsk. Do your best ‘not to be ‘wrong’’. Aim for the right thing my dear!

Surfer.


M46/W40/D8/S6/T20/M12/Separated 6/2016,W takes kids
Issues2009
Wpartying w/g.f's2013on
EA2013PAdeniedWleavesMBR
ImeetAP/EAhalts
VariousBDDates
MFCourse
WSpew
EAresumes I halt
Wrages
DBIng4/2016




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