Steve just read your last post. That's great. So happy for you.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
Another quick update. Gave my W a hug goodbye after a great morning of interacting getting ready for work. Hugged her for about 5 seconds and went to pull away. She wouldn't let me, and kept the hug going for several seconds more.
To go from not even wanting to hug me a few months ago to this amazes me. For posters that are just now in their sitches, and don't have much hope, just put the work in. It took several weeks of my changes before my W believed them. Even now she will test the changes to see if I have really changed. CONSISTENCY is the key. When you 180 NEVER 180 back the other way again. One mistake can destroy weeks of hard week, so strive to be diligent in 180ing.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Congratulations. I am almost tearing up thinking about that hug. I cant imagine a better feeling in the world.
You deserve it.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
Gave my W a hug goodbye after a great morning of interacting getting ready for work. Hugged her for about 5 seconds and went to pull away. She wouldn't let me, and kept the hug going for several seconds more.
Steve85,
It sounds like you need to pack her sh*t and toss her out on her @ss. Don't forget to change the locks.
Thanks Davide and LW. This is why you should never give up hope. There were so many times in Jan and Feb I was ready to throw in the towel. But the sandi rule "Never give up!" was always in my frontal cortex!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
