Thanks LW. I have to always remember that problems do not give me the right to mistreat those that I love and love me. Heck, it doesn't give me the right to mistreat those that hate me either! (Christ like!)
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Yo Steve! is your tag line still correct? Do you still intend to file for D if she doesn't get her act together? Just curious considering where you're at right now.
It shows a lot of self control to be able to not have the most obvious reaction that is inherent to you Steve, but that is what 180 is all about. The way things are going for you, piecing should be a great success. I hope your MR 2.0 is really great.
Yo Steve! is your tag line still correct? Do you still intend to file for D if she doesn't get her act together? Just curious considering where you're at right now.
Since we are still in the initial stages of piecing and R, yes my tag is still correct. I truly believe that she has to be consistent in her actions for a long time before I can trust that she is back all in or not.
The last time the MC asked her directly, which I think was in late April, if she was leaning toward leaving or staying, she said staying but there was still hesitation and a lack of surety. Something like "I think leaning toward staying. As we continue to connect and keep things fun, I can feel my desire to leave lessening."
Again not a solid endorsement, and even if verbally she said she was all in, then I would need to see her actions consistent with that. I will say that so far her actions have all been consistent with that since early March.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
It shows a lot of self control to be able to not have the most obvious reaction that is inherent to you Steve, but that is what 180 is all about. The way things are going for you, piecing should be a great success. I hope your MR 2.0 is really great.
Thank you arsh! I love the MR 2.0 moniker! Perfect.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
So we received the keys for the new house yesterday. W and I walked through it together, talked about things we wanted to do in the future to it, and generally had a great time. D and friend were in the pool the whole time.
Moved first load yesterday. Mostly outside/garage/polebarn stuff, and my daughter's dune buggy. I have wed-fri off to continue moving and working on the current house.
Real estate agent did the walk-through of our current house to get it on the market last night. Still have a few items to shore up but it is coming along.
So nothing really new to report, we continue to piece and R. It is going well. Had a long talk with D on Friday night about her phone and internet usage. That it is a bit excessive. She was defiant at first but seems to have accepted our new boundaries on it.
I may be a bit scarce for the next week or so but then I should be able to catch up on everyone's sitches.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
