Steve, I am so happy for you and your family! I very much enjoy reading your posts and successes! Keep posting! JS
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18
You have shown consistency Steve, your piecing is turning out to be a great success. Good luck and thanks for the support you offer to all of us. - arshi
Not sure if sandi still reads my threads or not, but I came across this:
Originally Posted by sandi2
Quote: One of the things we implemented was her taking back over the grocery shopping
By saying, "We".......are you referring to the counselor?
I fail to see how this will benefit the MR, if your W cannot control her spending. It is a fast way to add a new problem on top of your current one. Why not go together to buy groceries? It would get her out of the house, and be easier on the wallet.
sandi, as with all of the advice you gave me, this was such good advice!! We have implemented this over the course of last few months. Not only has it been fun shopping together, but it did clear up the overspending tendency she has.
sandi, Mach, Caden, Amoafwl, AnotherStander, Vanilla, and everyone else that chimed in (I know I am leaving out a lot of names!), thank you so much. We continue to work on MR 3.0 (we were already on 2.0) and because of this forum we have made great strides. I continue to cement my positive changes and it continues to invoke positive changes in her!
THANK YOU TO YOU ALL AND GOD BLESS EVERYONE OF YOU!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Steve85, you are a bit of a legend on here it seems. Well done! .
A legend within 6 months of arriving. Now that's something!
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
