Husband cheated, trying 180 (2)

[Ready2Change]

Praying someone is on here. We are home together now and he keeps getting on his phone, secretively as always. I am tempted to say to him again "If you are speaking with another woman, you can not live in this house."

But it is something I said to him yesterday, and i know it will cause a massive blow up. Please someone respond

"H, To help rebuild my trust, please show me your phone.. If you will not show me your phone, I will assume you are in contact with another woman and ask you to leave."

[kech]

But right now he is not working to rebuild my trust. He is at a stance where we are not actively working on our marriage, so in his eyes he doesnt need to rebuild my trust right now.

[Ready2Change]

But right now he is not working to rebuild my trust. He is at a stance where we are not actively working on our marriage, so in his eyes he doesnt need to rebuild my trust right now.

There is a difference between romance and being married. There is no room for deception in a marriage. If he is contacting other woman, you do everything in your power to stop the contact. The hard thing is you are in competition with a fantasy.

[kech]

I said to him what you said. He would not show me his phone and he left. He said if I wont let him see the baby tomorrow he is taking me to court.

[Ready2Change]

"H, Please show me your phone.. If you will not show me your phone, I will assume you are in contact with another woman and you will no longer we welcome in my house."

[Ready2Change]

I said to him what you said. He would not show me his phone and he left. He said if I wont let him see the baby tomorrow he is taking me to court.

He is in contact with OW.




You have your proof by his actions.

[kech]

He just texted me saying "lets just go to court and finalize this. I am not going anything wrong and here you are again waving this is in my face. I am not coming back there ever"..should I respond?



He just texted again and said he is serious and will have papers served to me

[Ready2Change]

Any past actions give you have concerns for the baby's saftey with H? I assume not based on you wanting to stay married to this guy. Send a Text message:

"I will not and do not want to deny you access to our daughter. When would you like to pick her up? When can I expect her back?


Not R text. Keep it about parenting

[kech]

Okay I said "I will not deny you access to our daughter"

[Ready2Change]

He will definitely clear his phone of OW and go darker. He is not acting like a man with remorse.