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he just said "bulls***, im not relying on anything. Divorce papers then we can handle custody. Access to my daughter depends on your attitude towards me, not happening anymore." and i said thats not true. ive never kept her from you and i never will."

and he said "like i said next time i come to you will be with papers. that way you get your money and i get to see her for sure. thanks bye"

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You did the right thing. You will now be going down two parallel paths. Both are hard. You can handle it.


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i dont want a divorce


he just said "let my mom see her at least until i get court underway"..


i said you and your mom can see her, im not keeping her from you ever. and he said back, "stop lying" and i hate when he does this. Its like hes not even listening to me. IM telling him he can see her and hes saying im not


i do not want a divorce. what am i supposed to do when he serves me with papers

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He's guilty. And the fact he mentioned money shows why he hadn't left yet.


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"You can come get D right now if you would like. I am not going to stand in the way of your relationship with her. I expect her home by Xocock so I can get her ready for bed."


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Steve,

I believe she should make appoints with the top 3-4 D lawyers in her area. What do you think?


If she sees them, them H can't retain them.....


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Kech, ready guided you perfectly here. Well done. I know this is difficult and scary. But the alternative was to continue to allow him to cake eat. Good job on taking the cake away!


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i dont want a divorce at all. At ALL:. this was not where I wanted this to go

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Originally Posted by kech
i do not want a divorce. what am i supposed to do when he serves me with papers
Take them. Read them.




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Steve,

I believe she should make appoints with the top 3-4 D lawyers in her area. What do you think?


If she sees them, them H can't retain them.....

LIKE ASAP tommorow

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Originally Posted by kech
i dont want a divorce at all. At ALL:. this was not where I wanted this to go

Yes. We all want you to save your marriage. The process is the best way to get it back.

You can't save your marriage while there is another woman.


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