Husband cheated, trying 180 (2)

[kech]

I would like to bring up tomorrow to him again or he is going to turn this on me. Before he left the house he said "so when can I pick her up tomorrow" and i said no, out of instinct. And now I have told him he can and he is ignoring it

[kech]

This is so not what I wanted. Now I am heading towards divorce when an hour ago we were happily feeding her bananas for the first time.

[Ready2Change]

I would like to bring up tomorrow to him again or he is going to turn this on me. Before he left the house he said "so when can I pick her up tomorrow" and i said no, out of instinct. And now I have told him he can and he is ignoring it

I didn't realize you said "No" initially.

Please post the last few text so I can see the exact convo ie:

H:"bla bla bla"
W:Bla bla"
H:

[Ready2Change]

This is so not what I wanted. Now I am heading towards divorce when an hour ago we were happily feeding her bananas for the first time.

Do you believe he is was texting another woman?

[Ready2Change]

I would react the same way he did if I was cheating on my W.

If my lady asked to see my phone, I would show her. I have nothing to hide from my lady.

If I was a very sneaky man, I would have a different phone to talk to my other woman.(hint: he will go darker)

[Ready2Change]

I will be away from my computer for a few hours. I will check back in later. hopefully others can chime in as well.

you can handle this.

HUGS

[kech]

Thank you. He is being extremely rude to me via text right now. I hate this so much. Last thing I said was "if you want to see her tomorrow let me know, your decision." and he responded

H: "F*** you"
H: Thanks for everything
H: "we need to dissolve marriage so I can start custody paper"

[kech]

Do I respond? I do not want a divorce. I dont know how to respond

[kech]

We promised eachother we would not do custody through the courts if we ever got to this point. Should I say that?

[kech]

This is my worst nightmare, she is only 6 months. Not only do I not want a divorce, I do not want to lose time with her. This is awful