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Terapin #2813202 09/18/18 10:34 PM
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Journaling. Im out of town for work. First time sincs BD. Missing W and Son.

One question, which probably doesnt have an answer. How long is 'limbo' acceptable? Im happy w the baby steps were taking, but does there come a 'sh!t or get off the pot' timeframe?

I realize im only 2 months in, marathon, etc, but even though im enjoying the friendliness and communication, the lack of physical contact is killing me


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14

Terapin #2813208 09/18/18 11:45 PM
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Slowly does it. Remember the squirrel....

Terapin #2813213 09/19/18 12:37 AM
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The answer is as long as you can tolerate it, or she either leaves or wants to R. Every sitch is different. Most of the time WWs will stay in limbo as long as you let them.


http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2813210#Post2813210

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