Would i be wrong for shredding letters i wrote W before i found this place? It [censored] because that was the only thing she somewhat responded to, but they have just been kind of laying out tossed aside but in plain sight. Yes, i gave them to her but she obviously didnt care much for them since they just sit there.
I feel pain and let down when i see them. Selfishly, i dont want her to have that part of me anymore. Truthfully she doesnt deserve it.
Would i be wrong for shredding them? She shouldnt care, shes moved on with OM.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
Went out for a little bit last night. I wasnt there when my W got home from work at night, which she is used to. She called me a few times from her phone and S's phone. I gave her a call back within 10-15 minutes and didnt get an answer. I texted to see if her and S were fine, and didnt get a response.
So this morning my W brings it up and says that it was a little unreasonable that i didnt answer "their" calls. I say "im sorry, i did call back in 10 minutes though". I proceed to ask her what she needed and she says nothing now, and then i ask why didnt she answer or call back, and she says that she probably had figured out whatever it was by that time. No reason to why she didnt text/call back.
Im sure she was just mad i wasnt home, and was checking to see what i was up to. Its really a complete joke that she is upset that i didnt answer and still called back in a reasonable amount of time, yet when i called her months ago before i had proof of a PA, she wouldnt call back for hours. Im thinking shes upset because shes losing control over me. WW's minds are something else.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
She's just stomping her feet. You have nothing to be sorry about. Don't let it bother you. If she continues to bring it up all the time then you harden up and push back, but I wouldn't give it a second thought at this point.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
lol...exactly like my WW did when I came home late after work...not dressed in work clothes. She had called a few hours earlier and I didn't answer right away. Her first text read "please call", two minutes later it said "nm dont call....ever". Then when I got home at 9:30 she was waiting for me right inside the garage door only to say "i want a divorce...as soon as possible"...that was close to a month ago. They want control and when they lose it...they actually lose it.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
