He is supposed to this weekend, he hasnt mentioned it again, but I can guarantee you it wont happen. I would be shocked if so.
Originally Posted by Steve85
Also, he is projecting. His guilt over having an OW makes him lash out at you as if you have an OM because it eases his conscience. And he also keeps bringing up the past to make himself feel better about his choice too. Here is the thing, he knows it is bogus. He knows that even if you were the worst W in the history of marriage, it doesn't give him the right to sleep with other women.
This nails it. He like goes out of his way to do this. The other night texting me about finalizing, I dont understand why he starts those convos and then goes on about how awful I was to him. I know he is deflecting, but hes not CHANGING what hes doing. He is still seeing OW, so I just dont understand why he brings it all up. Youre right, he does know its bogus, because it most certainly is.
