Whirlwind of hurt 2

[Ready2Change]

Do you ever get to a point with the WAS that you just say enough with the lies?

Yes.



read this post:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2045297#Post2045297

What helped me was to script out my 2nd, longer, "The Deceit's Gotta Stop" confrontation with my wife. Practiced it, over and over, even out loud, in my office. Rehearsed my body language, and my inflection, and my eye contact. Probably two dozen times.....Who said this had to be a 15-second script? I'd suggest about a 3-minute one, give or take...

(I could not find the original post.)


Read this THREAD:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...ain=44680&Number=1859179#Post1859179

When you make a boundary you are choosing for yourself how you let others treat you

And this post:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2816591#Post2816591

Put your hand up in the "stop" position, and say "Please stop --we both know you're lying to me right now, so let me finish.

Or walk away.



And this post:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1922220

Do not reveal anything about what you know and how you found out

Just food for thought.

[Twofeet]

Part 3
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2816839#Post2816839