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She's a royal wench..............


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Oh man...


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Sorry OK...I concur with the others. On a side note I thought you handled it well.


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Next message just ignore it. Let her boil herself on her narcissistic broth.


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Originally Posted by neffer
Next message just ignore it. Let her boil herself on her narcissistic broth.


THIS^^^^^^^

It is still possible it was a mistake. Though unlikely.

If it was then responding is giving her what she wants.

Not responding is exactly the perfect way to deal with someone like her. Never acknowledge it. Even if she brings it up later. Gaslight her!


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Super uncool on her part. I don't buy it as a mistake happening twice like that. Next time, no response on your part. No matter what the text, naked pic etc. Starve that fire by giving it no oxygen.


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She wants some kind of reaction, ANY KIND, because she needs attention. She knows you are an easy target. She knows just how to get in your head and get you going. I think it's a game to her. So don't play the game. Don't respond, ignore, just as the others said.

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