So, I answered a question that you intended to be a rhetorical question, and that answer introduced confusion.
You interpreted my literal question as rhetorical and thought I was jumping to conclusions.
As for what you do with my comments--whatever you want.
You disagree with my opinion.
That's fine.
I am a random stranger on the Internet. There is no penalty for completely ignoring any or all of my comments.
I posted what I saw in your situation for the same reason we post anything here--to give posters a view they might not be seeing in the hopes that it's helpful, even if hard to hear.
But posters are always free to reject the view that's offered, based on what they know of their situation.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
Well, I hope I answered any of you serious questions. Thanks for your input.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
Well, I hope I answered any of you serious questions. Thanks for your input.
You didn't, but I think that's because you don't believe me when I say it was a serious question.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
Well, I hope I answered any of you serious questions. Thanks for your input.
You didn't, but I think that's because you don't believe me when I say it was a serious question.
Actually, I did find a partial answer to my question. Thank you.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
Rose, What are you talking about? Which question is a serious question that I didn't answer? Help me understand.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
So, no real updates. Today is my Birthday. Wife asked if I wanted to go out tonight or another night. D19 is home for Thanksgiving. Wife is sleeping on the couch.
No expectations = no disapointments
It took a while to get here, and I am good with it.
Last edited by RR17; 11/19/1812:10 PM.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
