A Reconciliation talk should take place only if W comes in a jellyfish state... as today she is in a darth Vader riding mad horse state... get out of her path.
WW H(me): 53 W: 48 T: 27 M: 22 S: 18 Piecing since 03/2016 Saw the light in the storm
She got all huffy a while back because one of my friends referred to her as Voldemort. She went off on ME about that.
"Well, maybe if you would have defended me like that we'd still be together!"
BS. Totally.
I'm absolutely getting out of her path. And making a brand new path.
Today when I picked S up from the daycare, they told me that W told them that I wanted to change his daycare. I never said that, and she CAN'T do that legally.
So far we've raised $230 towards attorney fees in less than 24 hours. Still a long way to go.
W texted me at about 2 am to remind me that S needed his backpack and meds for today. She had meds, and she ordered a refill the other day, but she thinks it's my fault for "forgetting". I was in bed at 10:30 last night.
She's having me call my landlord to have her get the meds (before noon) so that she can pick them up before she leaves town with S for her family's thanksgiving deal. I had originally told her to meet me at my apartment at 5:45 and I'd give them to her, but she's leaving sooner.
W: "Did you contact the landlord?"
M: "Yes. I'll let you know when I hear back."
W: "Did you text or call?"
M: ...
W: "Can you meet me on your lunch break?"
I haven't answered yet. It's literally a 25-30 min drive to/from my house from work.
If I don't hear back from the landlord soon, that's likely what I'll do. W refuses to give me any specific time except "before noon".
No. Don't meet her at lunch. Why does her failure to plan mean YOU have to change your schedule? If the landlord doesn't respond then guess what? She can wait until 5:45pm.
In the business world we have a saying about this: "Failure to plan on your part doesn't constitute an emergency on my part."
Last edited by Steve85; 11/21/1804:06 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
No. Don't meet her at lunch. Why does her failure to plan mean YOU have to change your schedule? If the landlord doesn't respond then guess what? She can wait until 5:45pm.
In the business world we have a saying about this: "Failure to plan on your part doesn't constitute an emergency on my part."
That's what came to my mind as well. Heh. I told her she could wait till 5:45, but she said "We'll literally be in (other town) eating at that time."
She figured it out. She called in a script the other day because she thought he was almost out (like 2 weeks after getting a refill), but it's going to only cost her $4 to pick it up, so she's just going to do that.
I *almost* wanted to say "Good job..." but I refrained. Too snarky. lol
[align:left][/align]You really started A crowd funding page?!
I am vocally judgemental about those. You are asking people to fund your divorce. That’s your personal business and no one else’s nor their responsibility. And starting them for yourself? Come on now.
These people are giving money for your divorce when little did they know about a minute before that you are saving the marriage.
Don’t get me wrong, I have given before. To the little girl from my daughters aftercare who was diagnosed with an awful brain tumor and the medical expenses are astomnomical. My daughter has decided to a fundraiser for her through her community service group.
Please, if you decide not to go through with this divorce, give that money back to it’s rightful owners .
lol