My IC suggested showing some vulnerability towards W. I'm not sure if now is the time / place for that--you are correct in the sense that vulnerability has value, but what is key for that is context.
Will admit back in he spring I played victim quite a bit, and did not help me. It also won't help me now.
Getting my mojo back by getting my work done, being present to kids, and improving self (physically, emotionally and spiritually) will carry me much further.
R2C, Not 100% sure what the hidden message is but I think I know. I for one am throwing a small xmas party with the neighbors at my place (8 people in total) next Saturday. As far as I know W is likely going to be back in the house at that point as well so that should be interesting
