I will stay away from her as much as I can. She sends me two pics of D4 hugging our dog.
No response right? Or just say thanks.
Feels like this is impossible. I try to set a boundary its wrong and controlling. I try to not talk to her and its not kind enough.
Im just going to say cute thanks for the pictures.
Last edited by Did; 12/06/1808:12 PM.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
No response. Man, come on! Boundaries are for you. Don’t contact her except for D4 emergency messages. When it’s your time with D4 you keep N/C.
Are you talking serious? Did, relax, breathe and control yourself. That’s the only thing you should try to control, you can’t control the rest.
Go dark. Do not contact W. You can do that Did. Free yourself. It gets better after that. Take your time to do it. Have patience and believe in yourself.
WW H(me): 53 W: 48 T: 27 M: 22 S: 18 Piecing since 03/2016 Saw the light in the storm
Will do Neffer... just thinking back to lighting the candles with D4 then it was ok to facetime and do it.
No response. Go dark except d4 emergencies. Will do. I have D4 tonight - Sun afternoon.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
Youre right she left. What the F do I want to talk to her for.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
Did, It's going to be tough at first. Was probably one of the hardest things I have done but ultimately was very positive for my emotional and mental well being. Stay strong, you can do it.
W texts me I forgot to give you her waffle. She made waffles yesterday when I was there and D4 wanted to save one for tomorrow - today. Not going to respond to this.
She usually asks how she slept. If she asks that no response?
Or if she asks to FaceTime? No response or call and give D4 the phone.
I wish we could talk and work on things but as Sandi says just do what works which is basically ignoring her... going as dim as possible.
Thanks for the advice it should be so simple.
Last edited by Did; 12/07/1803:25 PM.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
She said I’m at Scott Honda in west Chester Miss her Show her the car Sorry they didn’t have any pink or purple ones
She’s Getting a new car because hers was totaled from drunk driving accident.
My response - good luck? Or just ignore
Gotta let her go let her make mistakes / detach
Last edited by Did; 12/07/1804:07 PM.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
