Wife said she is wanting to separate but hasnt made any moves we still sleep in same bed have sex etc . Tips on how to practice no contact while under same roof would be appreciated. She doesnt want to talk about relationship but sends mixed signals as to perhaps us reconciling.
H36 W37 SD14 SS16 M 2 YEARS BD 12/25/2018 Still living together, sleeping together, etc
Make her leave the MBR. The best thing to do is GAL. Get out of the house. Stop talking to her. Stop everything you usually do and do a 180. Read everything on this site. Also, explain your situation. What happened?
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Yes we were sleeping together having sex regulalry. Some heated R talk the past couple of days spun out of control and now she is sleeping in D14 room. Any advice on how to get her back in the bedroom? Married 2 years I'm 36 shes 37 two children thy are hers from a previous marriage.
H36 W37 SD14 SS16 M 2 YEARS BD 12/25/2018 Still living together, sleeping together, etc
She says she cant trust me to respect her space. Shes seeing an IC who has convinced her shes an emotional abuse victim. We have days where we get along well but R talk just destroys it. She says there is a sliver of hope and in the next sentence says there isn't. She says she contemplating moving out even though we are on a lease.
H36 W37 SD14 SS16 M 2 YEARS BD 12/25/2018 Still living together, sleeping together, etc
Should I employ no contact and GAL hardcore? Shes says we will revisit the bedroom arrangement on Sunday and if I'm able to respect her space. This terribly hard living under same roof knowing my wife wont sleep in same bed with me.
H36 W37 SD14 SS16 M 2 YEARS BD 12/25/2018 Still living together, sleeping together, etc
