Advice for no contact

[LH19]

This terribly hard living under same roof knowing my wife wont sleep in same bed with me.

Why are you finding it difficult to respect her space?

[ScottG31]

Yeah please dont repost my previous postings. I put a little too much private information there and dont want her to find this forum.

[ScottG31]

Because we're in a rocky place and she won't give concrete answers as to of she wants to divorce or not. Shea had me in this limbo for over 4 months now. I really want to save my marriage but am feeling extremely weathered lately.

[LH19]

You have to give her the time and space she is asking for or you will push her away.

[ScottG31]

Do you think its too late since she moved out of our bedroom? Can I still salvage this? It's so embarrassing to even be at home right now for me. I'm sure the kids are telling members of thier family as well as her ex husband. Just feeling like a huge failure today. Thank God for the support on here.

[LH19]

Absolutely as long as you stop pursuing her and give her the time and space for her to make a decision.

[ScottG31]

I just found out she blocked me on all social media. Should I just go dark and delete it all?

[LH19]

You need to stop and take a breath. Read sandi's 37 rules and start implementing them immediately.

This is going to take a really long time to play out.

[ScottG31]

I've read them and need to actually start living them. Will refamilarize myself with the rules

[ScottG31]

Feeling a like a prisoner in my house. Kids arent mine of course they side with thier mother. All I have is a dog for support. Shes in the other room and I'm so tempted to demand an ultimatum but R talk just makes it worse. Tonight will be the first night I've slept alone in 7 years. Little things like that are just tearing me up inside.