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Needy is probably right. I'm trying to kick that bad habit


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Originally Posted by ScottG31
We have sex all the time so it doesn't feel like friend zone.
This is not the correct gauge.

Just because the gas gauge is reading full does not mean that the oil is not low. Your engine will seize up if you keep driving without enough oil.


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I feel like patience is what shes desiring. Removing myself from create distance let her come to me.


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Well kind sir please enlighten me


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Well it sounds like you are doing a bad job kicking it.

Your neediness is causing her to feel emotionally unsafe with you. She wants you to let her come to you in the bedroom at her own pace.

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Noted


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Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by ScottG31
We have sex all the time so it doesn't feel like friend zone.
This is not the correct gauge.

Just because the gas gauge is reading full does not mean that the oil is not low. Your engine will seize up if you keep driving without enough oil.


I had sex with my WW daily for the last month or so before she jumped into her PA. It was like a switch, one day boom, no more sex.


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That [censored] Tom. Well I don't have any proof of an A yet but who knows what I will learn as time progresses. She decided to stay in our bed but refuses any type of intimacy tonight. I'm fine with that though because I have zero expectations.


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Originally Posted by ScottG31
I have an idea what it means but would be open for feedback.


Google "come to me emotionally, intimately"


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Interesting read there. Just not sure if I should be DBing or working on getting her emotional trust


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