She is close to giving up because of how much she has put into getting me back only to face obstacle after obstacle.
Joe I see a lot of red flags in your situation and I am just going to give you my OPINION.
Just like bomb was the hardest thing you ever went through, this is the hardest thing she should ever go through. If she is close to giving up already that's a big red flag.
Other red flags:
She's already lying to you again. How many guys she slept with afterwards matters.
Issues with your son? I thought they worked everything out?
She is definitely looking for someone to make her happy. She hasn't even tried to be on her own at all.
Right from the start something didn't seem right to me. This happened too fast. IMO true successful recons happen way down the road after you have walked different paths and have grown and have experienced life apart.
I think you are correct that she had some crappy experiences with OM and put on some weight and has come running back to good ole Joe. You guys are still young. What happens 7 years from now when your relationship shifts and she gets bored again?
Please start a new thread and link the two threads together. Thanks!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
