I was thinking more along the lines of keeping contact short & sweet, being the first one to leave a conversation etc & how a experienced DB'er would approach it?
Yes, definitely on both of those.
Originally Posted by Sokaku
Maybe I'm just being guarded or don't want to hug her out of old fashioned pride but letting her hug me would be the grown up thing to do?
Don't initiate hugs but if she does it's fine to hug her back. After BD my XW became the master of the side-armed hug, where you're standing next to the person and just kind of reach around and hug them without any body contact. I was just like "REALLY????" I didn't say it but I sure thought it. That's what a 25 year relationship comes down to, wow. Anyway every once in a while she tries to hug me and now I give her the side-armed hug, LOL!
