CONGRATULATIONS! I am so happy for you! When do you start?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Someone cleaned up my comment but the @ makes it look like an a - it's not an a, it's a U. FYI.
And not even a stamp that it was edited. I've brought this self-empowered no real standard make it up as we go, censorship before but it's clearly a losing battle. Now words you can hear on daytime over the air television are being censored. Wow.
Congratulations on the new job Ginger. I know how much you were hoping you'd get it. 2019 is starting out great for you!
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
Thank you! We need to work out the details of my salary before I give my notice and since it is an intersystem transfer, the managers need to work out my transfer date. They re-titled us a little while ago, without responsibility or salary change, but they ended up making me a "lead inpatient nurse care manager" and this job is for a "inpatient nurse care manager" I am worried they don't want to keep up my salary, but I hope they do and simply make it a lateral transfer. Hopefully I will know the details by the end of the week so I can officially accept the offer.
Went to the gym tonight and joined the whole 30 challenge we are having. I was hesitant because I love my alcohol, but I decided to change to vodka sodas for the challenge. A before picture was taken in my sports bra. EEEKKKK. My 20 lbs I think bother me most because I can physically feel the difference. I want to physically feel like I used to.
M has been having some major issues with his ex since yesterday. I'll spare the details, but he's been really stressed. I have been helping him through it. I did however tell him I got the job in the middle of it. He was sweet and said "Conragts baby, I knew you would get it" I told him I was taking him out to celebrate. He said he was sorry but his mind was consumed with what was going on in that moment. I felt kind of bad. He told me not to, etc. Anyways, he said to me today " I am very thankfully to have you in my life and for being so supportive and I mean that from the bottom of my heart" That meant a lot he said that.
This year really isn't too shabby so far. Great man, dream job, new house, new dog, my gym community is great.... my friends are great, I am in one of my besties wedding this year. Kid is almost on HIGH honor roll. I am fortunate. And some of this stuff is the payoff of hard work.
I am trying not to wait for the other shoe to drop and just enjoy.
I hope that they will transfer everything okay for you. The only thing that might change your salary is the word "lead". Sometimes one word in your position title will throw things off. Hopefully, they can match the salary for you.
I am glad you are there for your new man and can listen and help him through the stuff he is dealing with concerning his xw. It's never easy dealing with child custody issues and other issues that the ex's may bring up.
BTW, I did go back this morning and stamp my editorship of kml's earlier posting. My apologies for not stamping it yesterday.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
