Still foggy, still going (Phoenix9 DB XI)

[Phoenix9]

I do AS. And I cannot undo what I said. But I am going to do my best to turn it around.

Urgent help request. My WW just texted me telling me if she decides to have more kids and I don't divorce her they will be my responsibility.

I don't know how to answer this. I was thinking of saying "When we go down that road, we will decide then."?

[Wanted1]

I do AS. And I cannot undo what I said. But I am going to do my best to turn it around.

Urgent help request. My WW just texted me telling me if she decides to have more kids and I don't divorce her they will be my responsibility.

I don't know how to answer this. I was thinking of saying "When we go down that road, we will decide then."?

I wouldn't even respond to that nonsense......

[DejaVu6]

Does she mean kids with you or someone else? Like...if I get pregnant and we are still married, you will be on the hook for them? Sounds to me like she is trying to bait you into a conflict Phoenix. Not sure a ridiculous statement like that even necessitates an answer. If I were you, I would just not respond. That's an info only text...bizarre as it is.

[Phoenix9]

With someone else. I had a vasectomy.

I see that she is trying to bait me. I just don’t know if I should respond and I should, how would I? I see her tonight. What should I say if she asks me face to face?

[AnotherStander]

With someone else. I had a vasectomy.

I see that she is trying to bait me. I just don’t know if I should respond and I should, how would I? I see her tonight. What should I say if she asks me face to face?

That is patently ridiculous. No court in the world would make you responsible for an affair baby with a separated wife. What is the first thing a court does? Paternity test. Who's DNA comes up? Congrats, he's the loser in the support battle. If she says that to you tonight then just tell her that's nonsense and then walk away. If she persists just say "it's nonsense and that's all I've got to say about it." If it were me I'd tell her that if she does get pregnant to expect the D papers shortly after.

She's trying to manipulate you by the way. Don't fall for it.

[Ready2Change]

If she brings it up in person:

W:"bla bla bla"

Laugh as loud as you can, then look her dead in the eyes "That is the funniest thing I have heard in a long time!" Smile , pause "Do you have any other good jokes?"

[DejaVu6]

Love it!!!!

[Phoenix9]

She's trying to manipulate you by the way. Don't fall for it.

Is this WW getting more desperate at this point? Do WW's act like this when things are not going their way? Is this the "It gets worse before it gets better" part?

[Yail]

She's trying to manipulate you by the way. Don't fall for it.

Is this WW getting more desperate at this point? Do WW's act like this when things are not going their way? Is this the "It gets worse before it gets better" part?

Yes, it is "worse before it gets better" but because YOU will get better (you are! every step of the way) not because she will. Who knows why she's acting that way. Just shrug your shoulders and find something fun to do.

Your question sounds like you're inquiring if she's on the edge of changing. I think that's a way of trying to mindread or read the future. Your WW is acting terrible, so you should gently step aside while she is swinging her fists at everything around you. Do not get hit, do not engage.

[Twofeet]

I do AS. And I cannot undo what I said. But I am going to do my best to turn it around.

Urgent help request. My WW just texted me telling me if she decides to have more kids and I don't divorce her they will be my responsibility.

I don't know how to answer this. I was thinking of saying "When we go down that road, we will decide then."?

Wow! P I didn't know your WW was a comedian.