I have to admit that I've had thoughts over the last year that what if she just did this, with my D turning 15 last year, with the idea that when she turns 18 she'll follow through on her original plan to get a job, get her own place, and file for D? Any thoughts.
Have you made it to "Together at last" or "Awakening to Joy" stage?
Are you filling her love bucket? Is she filling yours? Is she actively work in the R?
Have you done retrouvaille?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
You are a pretty astute guy who has done all kinds of reading and research. I am pretty sure you could tell whether she was faking it or not.
As far as guarantees. Just death and taxes my friend.
Thanks. This is all in my head. No question about it. She is really reinvested in this marriage and working on it. Where she is today and where she was on 12/23/2017 is a complete 180.
But yes I get there are no guarantees.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
I have to admit that I've had thoughts over the last year that what if she just did this, with my D turning 15 last year, with the idea that when she turns 18 she'll follow through on her original plan to get a job, get her own place, and file for D? Any thoughts.
Have you made it to "Together at last" or "Awakening to Joy" stage?
Are you filling her love bucket? Is she filling yours? Is she actively work in the R?
Have you done retrouvaille?
Thanks R2C. WE continue to work.I continue to improve myself. She is working on some things as well. The love buckets are pretty full!
Retrouvaille is definitely on the to-do list.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
