Persistent Endurance

[curtis7]

I'd say: "Can you take S8 and D4 over there with you? I have some things I need to do out tonight. I'll be glad to swing by later and pick them back up."

Text sent, awaiting her response...

She replied “Don’t start. I know what you are doing. Ask your parents. They are only 5 mins away. Or wait until tomorrow night.”

[Ready2Change]

I'd say: "Can you take S8 and D4 over there with you? I have some things I need to do out tonight. I'll be glad to swing by later and pick them back up."

Text sent, awaiting her response...

She replied “Don’t start. I know what you are doing. Ask your parents. They are only 5 mins away. Or wait until tomorrow night.”

H:"I will. Just wanted to give you the option first. Thanks for the quick response."

[curtis7]

I'd say: "Can you take S8 and D4 over there with you? I have some things I need to do out tonight. I'll be glad to swing by later and pick them back up."

Text sent, awaiting her response...

She replied “Don’t start. I know what you are doing. Ask your parents. They are only 5 mins away. Or wait until tomorrow night.”

H:"I will. Just wanted to give you the option first. Thanks for the quick response."

Reply sent, thanks R2C!!
W replied: “They just saw them last week!!”

[LH19]

Another concern I have if I rock the boat before she closes on her separation house April 1st and officially moves out is that she’ll go ballistic and fight to keep our primary house in D.

Trust me she will want the quickest way out and that will be her moving out.

[Ready2Change]

W replied: “They just saw them last week!!”

Do not respond to this one.

[LH19]

She replied “Don’t start. I know what you are doing. Ask your parents. They are only 5 mins away. Or wait until tomorrow night.”

I would say "yeah, and I know what your doing".

[Ready2Change]

Now you need to ask your parents.

[curtis7]

W replied: “They just saw them last week!!”

Do not respond to this one.

Didn’t and wasn’t planning to, she just sent another pulling the divorced BFF into the fray of deception and web of lies.
W: “I just asked BFF. She said D 7 is sick and not a good idea.”
Not responding to this one either.

[curtis7]

Now you need to ask your parents.

Yep, now I’ve got plans for tonight...

[Ready2Change]

If needed, this works:

H:"Made arrangements with my parents. Don't worry about it any more."


The last part is important. She will start to think about the decision she just made. She will start to worry about it.