My W is/was bicurious (before the threesome). She always made out with women in clubs, in front of me... and always had a thing to have sex with another woman which I told her she can do ALONE if she wants... The threesome girl: my W was making out with her, all 3 of us dirty danced in the club, she came back with us, i had no idea why she was in the taxi with us, and they were in the back seat making out. The threesome was a disaster because my W got jealous that I was having sex with/giving attention to that girl in front of her, and she stopped. I didn't realize she stopped (i was so confused/got caught up in the moment). My W basically watched me have sex with that girl. I thought she liked that (watching). Confused/drunk. That's the turning point.
You've said you apologized several times. What did you apologize for? I mean, she set the thing up for a threesome, and when it didn't go like she thought it would...…...you are in the wrong?
I think whenever a MR doesn't have very clear boundaries, it is bound to have something go very bad.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
