Sorry it makes no difference what it costs, you are looking at it way too logically.
From her point of view she does not want to be married anymore so it doesnt matter if it cost her $2000.00 She will pay whatever it costs to not be tied to you.
She doesn’t understand how insurance and subsidies work
She didn’t want to share so she got her own policy through her job.
This makes her ineligible for my family so it’s just gonna be me and son
We lose subsidy however and that costs 400 a month for me and him
Hers costs 160
So now our family who is struggling financially has to pay almost 200 a month more because of her quick i don’t want to be in your plan thinking
She is calling in 20 min to talk about it and I don’t know how to steer the convo
I want to say. “Why would you do that just to not be on mine?!?” That’s a lot of extra money!!
She just figured me + son would be cheaper than fam and she wouldn’t wait
I've told a lot of other posters here, do not make decisions based on finances. I know you said that you are financially strapped. And I feel for you in that regard. But the reality is that all of this stuff is expensive. If she files it is going to get even more expensive. However, $$$ is not the driving factor here, as Cadet said.
So suck it up, cut something else, and move forward.
When she calls to talk, listen and validate.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
