Do I apologize for lashing out at her during the confrontation? I know it sounds crazy but I am feeling quite a bit of guilt because of some things that I said.
Do I apologize for lashing out at her during the confrontation? I know it sounds crazy but I am feeling quite a bit of guilt because of some things that I said.
NO! Stay calm. Walk away as needed.
Originally Posted by "AnotherStander"
DO NOT try to talk to her for a while, at least a week, about ANYTHING. I would suggest shutting down ALL conversations with her until your emotions settle
Originally Posted by "Ready2Change"
DO NOT ENGAGE IN CONVERSATION. LISTEN if needed.
Originally Posted by "CWarrior"
Hold-off on expressing your feelings just now. You haven't had enough time to process them. If she talks, it's okay to listen and validate.
Earlier K you said you were done if you found out there was an A you found out there was an A and you are not done. This is why it is sometimes hard to give advice on confronting.
Now fear is kicking in and you want to apologize to W for the way you handled the confrontation. This shows weakness and the WW will take full advantage.
It is very important for the LBS to show strength once A as exposed. Showing weakness will put you into to limbo land with lots of cake on top.
Please start a new thread and link the threads together.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
