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Re: Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR
kbuenob #2871298 11/08/19 01:57 AM
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Originally Posted by kbuenob
I see it. She's throwing stuff around. im calm
Just take mental notes. If it start to get too crazy, you can call the police.

You can let her know,

"If you don't stop I will call the police"

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Re: Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR
kbuenob #2871300 11/08/19 02:03 AM
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Kb, I'm praying for you! You got this.

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Re: Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR
kbuenob #2871301 11/08/19 02:05 AM
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Originally Posted by JR425
It’s only going to make her more angry because she want to fight with you so she can justify her actions. Don’t fall for it.

Stay strong, KBueno!
Re: Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR
kbuenob #2871304 11/08/19 02:13 AM
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Start listening to some classical music...find one of those Fall asleep Utube videos....

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Re: Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR
kbuenob #2871306 11/08/19 02:26 AM
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ok she's calm for now. It was interesting to see the dynamic. She was furious. I was cool as a cucumber
Re: Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR
kbuenob #2871307 11/08/19 02:29 AM
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Well done brother. You’re gaining power right now.

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Re: Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR
kbuenob #2871308 11/08/19 02:29 AM
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However, the night is young. Maybe she'll go out and spend time with the OW and leave me at peace...
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JR45 #2871309 11/08/19 02:30 AM
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thanks to all of you. wish we could all meet up for a beer
Re: Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR
kbuenob #2871310 11/08/19 02:32 AM
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You couldn’t have played it any better. Seriously...do not initiate any contact for several days. You have her so confused right now because you didn’t react the way she expected. Make her think about that for a while. That will lead her to think about other things and her reality may get altered a bit. Don’t interrupt this process. Remember. She’s a cat.

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Re: Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR
JR45 #2871311 11/08/19 02:34 AM
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JR425 Will do brother.

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Oh yeah and the classical music is helping a ton
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