Hi Paco. Thanks for reaching out on my thread. I'm sorry to hear about your marriage problems. I think it may easier if I find your story and respond on your thread, okay? See you there.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19
Can I ask you to visit my thread again please? some Q there for you! Thanks for all the help!
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19
I hope you are well Sandi. You and Cadet. I've not come here in almost two years I think. You both did an amazing thing in helping me back in 2016. Not sure why I felt compelled to stop by today, perhaps it was just to wish the best. All of you reading Sandi's posts, Cadet's, Job's etc. listen to them...not to be better at your marriage, but to become a better you. Only by knowing how to improve the relationship you have been in the longest, the one with yourself, can your relationship with others reach its fullest potential. I am a better father, professional, and partner to my former WAS from having listened. These hard lessons we learn here come with heartfelt results.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
Sorry to hear of your health issues. I wish you a speedy recovery
I have no questions, really - but I did want to take this opportunity to tell you that I have read many of your threads and posts on this forum, and all of them have been very wise, eye-opening and enormously insightful. Some of them have gotten me through the most difficult times of my life.
Thank you so much. We are very fortunate to have you here.
