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Originally Posted by BL42
it made me wonder why they (like so many of us here) weren't able to work through their issues and stay together.
Relationships are hard work. There are skills that we are not taught. We do not have good role models and support systems. I could go on and on.


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This thread has reached 100 posts so I need to start a new one. Bomb Day was 16 months ago and I am now officially divorced, so should I stay here in the "Newcomers" forum or transition over to "Surviving the Big D"? What's the rule of thumb?


Me:39 Ex-W:37
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BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
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BL42, personal preference, but the Surviving the Big D group are all focused on a future without their X. If you still hope to R and are trying to maximize those chances I’d probably stay here. If you’re only going to update every 3 months or so I’d stay here where more people know you. Otherwise, join the dark side!. wink

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How do I post??? It shows I have messages but I can’t check them🙈

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Last edited by job; 06/20/21 12:25 PM. Reason: added link to new thread

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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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