It really does. Its why I came on here and asked about it. I really wanted to reply back to his message and I almost did, but I know I need to not reoly at all if not just take a long time to. So I came on here and asked for strategies instead. I'm at work so even when I get the urge today ive decided I will get out DR and read at least one page out of it instead of replying to him
It really does. Its why I came on here and asked about it. I really wanted to reply back to his message and I almost did, but I know I need to not reoly at all if not just take a long time to. So I came on here and asked for strategies instead. I'm at work so even when I get the urge today ive decided I will get out DR and read at least one page out of it instead of replying to him
Here are how you should be dealing with his messages:
Do not respond to messages that are informational. Only respond to direct questions. But then do it in your own time (not right away). And in as few words as possible. Yes or no questions get yes or no answers.
You cannot be mysterious by being at his beck and call.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Thank you for that response. And OMG guys its working. I replied back to my H just saying "Thanks for letting me know" and he sent another message and I havent responded for about 2 hours, firat was 7. And my H just sent me "I miss you" he hasnt said that to me since this whole thing started about 2 months ago!
Help me please! I dont know how I should respond, I dont want to screw it up. Obviously I'm excited by this but I dont want to be overly excited to him and I'm not sure how I should respond to this so advice please! Also side note we should both be home in about 5 hours as I need to go home and I know he will be there in case rhats relevant
I can stay out a bit later tonight but I have to be home lile an hour after hed get there because I work at 4am tomorrow and need stuff so I'm sure he will bring it up when I'm there so I'm not sure how to respond to him when that happens.
And okay I'm not going to reply to his message at least. Thats what I'm trying to learn about. And trust me I want to kick him in the nuts as well with this whole process lol
He just wants to keep you firmly in place as plan B, it’s manipulation.
One minute he wants a divorce so you back off, and now he misses you? Nope not good enough.
If you want him back, AND loyal, you will basically have to have him begging you for another chance. Anything less than that, and he will repeat his behavior as soon as you start to cave.
