My H had his first meeting with the military Chaplain today in which he had planned to learn about more counseling and marriage related services, I hadn't asked for this info, he told it to me of his own accord.
Seems like a positive sign your H scheduling appointments with a Chaplain and researching marriage counseling services.
Originally Posted by Artemis1
It should have ended awhile ago and I have not gotten ahold of my H to see how it went, he went to work right after, or was suppose to at least. Which has been very difficult for me so far but I am trying to stay strong.
Play coy and resist the urge to hound him about it. Think of it as an experiment / test to see if he'll reach out to tell you about it (and perhaps even be excited about it).
Originally Posted by Artemis1
Also My H asked me if I'd be interested in this sort of Marriage related seminar through the Military, its called Strong Bonds, its a sort of seminar with couples on tips on communication and things such as this apparently, he has to sign up soon he said if so, I asked him how long for the deadline, he says he has to check but he believes he has about a month. I told him I am not ready to make that decision right now but I will try to let him know before the deadline if possible.
Just my $0.02, but if it's really H who's asking you to attend a marriage bonding program I'd take him up on it - you just don't want to be the one dragging him to attend something he doesn't want.
Originally Posted by Artemis1
LH19 I have been GALing my butt off as suggested, had a great time going to a fair and concert with a good friend and another day with my son I've been focusing on work and my son, and friends, much more then I thought id be able to.
Awesome! Keep it up!
Good update Artemis1. Hope things continue in a positive direction for you...
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
Time for a new thread. Please link both threads together. Thanks!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I've been focusing on work and my son, and friends, much more then I thought id be able to.