Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
"Please start a new thread. You are 71 postings over the 100 limit. I will link up your new thread to this one...but please link this thread to your new one. I am locking this thread."
Unless I'm mistaken Insecure just started the thread yesterday and it only has 25 replies.
Maybe it was a accident? If so, it should be unlocked...don't want to confuse/turn away a new poster.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
"Please start a new thread. You are 71 postings over the 100 limit. I will link up your new thread to this one...but please link this thread to your new one. I am locking this thread."
Unless I'm mistaken Insecure just started the thread yesterday and it only has 25 replies.
Maybe it was a accident? If so, it should be unlocked...don't want to confuse/turn away a new poster.
I seem to be the target of cyberbullying by user LH. I previously reported LH's behavior towards May. Like Steve and Andrew, I've used the "ignore" button, but wherever I post he follows with personal attacks. Despite the possibility of retaliation, I feel it's my duty to take the next step and report this behavior to create a safer community for DivorceBusting members.
I seem to be the target of cyberbullying by user LH. I previously reported LH's behavior towards May. Like Steve and Andrew, I've used the "ignore" button, but wherever I post he follows with personal attacks. Despite the possibility of retaliation, I feel it's my duty to take the next step and report this behavior to create a safer community for DivorceBusting members.
I am not seeing it on what has been posted - however I am trying to keep an eye on these conversations if I can.
I agree that you should ignore the advice that you feel is not helping you, while keeping in mind that most posters are trying to help you get unstuck.
Remember that most of us had failed marriages because of traits that we failed to see and change.
Cadet, posting on my "Life is Going Well VII" thread that I have "borderline psychopathic behavior", "Aspergers", and "some sort of syndrome or personality"--then on tt180's calling me "selfish"--looks like bullying to me. I've been clear any contact from him is unwanted, I'm using the Ignore button, and I've reported. Anyway, thanks for keeping an eye out! Perhaps something will change. PS - I don't feel stuck, my life's had some big upswings lately. Wishing the same for you and Job.
Cadet, posting on my "Life is Going Well VII" thread that I have "borderline psychopathic behavior", "Aspergers", and "some sort of syndrome or personality"--then on tt180's calling me "selfish"--looks like bullying to me. I've been clear any contact from him is unwanted, I'm using the Ignore button, and I've reported. Anyway, thanks for keeping an eye out! Perhaps something will change. PS - I don't feel stuck, my life's had some big upswings lately. Wishing the same for you and Job.
