wise---from JJ re: LRT --must read :)

[inmyplace]

LL,

You aren't confused at all.

IMP

[Jamesjohn]

quote:Originally posted by lostlove:
The one clear message in this thread is work on improving yourself for yourself.

You got it!!

Just when I really thought I should call it a day, a light bulb is here.
Ken, Matt, Jante, ColinH, Echo read this too.

I am so grateful this thread is here at this precise moment.

XOXOX Karen

[tooblue34]

It all sounds to easy ....but how do you do it?????? How will they notice anything if you are separated living different lives????

Yes your dark....but when you come to the light what and how do they notice changes????
I can sit here and focus on my health, my work, my pride, my respect and let him live his life but how will H know that I've changed?????

Not calling....not caring,,,,
be quiet.....
It all sounds to wonderful....but where to begin to get this man to notice is the problem.....
I printed the whole first thread .....I will try to find the strength.....to focus on me....let him go....but how will he see.....

[inmyplace]

tooblue,

The real key is when you don't ask how he will notice. That is letting go. That is when you will be there. Because it makes no difference what someone else thinks, it only matters what you think. You have to know you have changed. He may not care.

IMP

[Jamesjohn]

Time for a bump?

[va-andy]

Up for the new DBers!

[Jamesjohn]

Oops! Over 100!

Next thread

[Jamesjohn]

Updated link to new thread!

[Jamesjohn]

bump