Actually I don't think H is going to take this serious at all. H thinks I'm just wasting his money and of course believe's I'm entilted to nothing. I feel as though H took the R as dating and actually married.
My Mom made a comment though, and maybe, just maybe she is right. She said it's alot diffenerent when you she thing's like that on paper. But I know I all I will get from H is anger.
Quote: And hey...if your H's are getting together...can mine come too??? Maybe together they can ask for directions on the way back from insanity!!! (or at least get a map!) LOL!!
Hey, sound's good . But I think they would Prob. have trouble reading the map LMAO!!!
Thanks for the encouragement, you know I need it right now.
Well today was court for Temp. Hearing. It went very good and I did very well. H would not even look at me, oh well I guess. H was shall we say, not the happeist person.
H lawyer offered something completely ridiculous and I did not agree. So off to the court room to get pounded by his Lawyer. H lawyer asked some crazy question's EX. he asked if I was on drug's? I said no of course and never have been. Some of the other question I must say were completely asinine.
I did very really and did not cry until we were done .
H lied and said under oath he has not had any other R with any OW. H also tried and did lie about several other thing's.
I got what I wanted and I'm very happy with the result's. So all and all it was a good day. The Big D is set for May 3. So until then I shall work on myself and try not to worry about it.
Yeah, well... that's standard behavior. Lie and don't look anyone in the eye (and if THAT'S not an admission of GUILT ).
And the lawyer's questions were typical. After all, your H's lawyer's job is to cast suspicion on YOU. Been there, done that . The purpose of those stupid questions: to rattle your cage. You did good!!! A lot of this stuff too is proforma in a divorce case that isn't no fault.
Ya my H would not know how to tell the truth if it bite him in the ass . No rattling the cage here, I told the truth and have nothing to be guilty of, so to bad for him.
You know, the one thing in this world I absolutely cannot stand: a liar!! And lying can be telling an untruth or avoiding the truth.....................the judge and his attorney will finally catch on to him. These guys really are weanies.
H does not want to rock the boat. H has told so many lies, to so many different people. He just want's me to go away, so everything does not catch up with him.
I hope he already has got the message. But who know's about him? H knows Im extremely sneaky and I write everything down.But I did believe all the lie's he told me, so I guess I was the one who was not so sneaky.
So maybe now it's my turn. Every dog has his day and hopefully his will come soon. You know I actually feel sorry for the OW. He has done this to his 1st and now me, so I kinda of see a cycle here.
Yep I feel the same way about liar's. It made me so angry when he lied on the stand about not having a GF. I knew he would lie, but to actually see it and hear it.
H did not even blink his eye's when he lied, he was as calm as can be. So now I can really see through H, and boy H is the best liar I ever seen.
But like my Att. told me, when they bring everyone in the court room they will not be able to keep their story straight. I actually can't wait until the day when he finally get's caught.
. But I think they would Prob. have trouble reading the map LMAO!!!
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. The purpose of those stupid questions: to rattle your cage. You did good!!! 
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