Hi Jade, While your STBX is in such a giving mood, take advantage of it. I'm sure his moods change daily. Seriously, if he's willing to give you everything, take it!!! After all, he's the one that created this mess, isn't he?
hey Jade.. Where are you? Haven't heard from u in a while...everything OK? Post me, call me... and yeah me too..gotta live vicariously thru u too!! Cap
Sorry I have not posted in a while (little mini vaca, shall we say).
Yes H is a repeat offender, not with me but his first one. I have came to the conclusion H is a irrepressible mama's boy who can't face reality or any problems that may surface.
I unfortunately got caught up in H childesh behavior and prob. could Db until the cows came home and would never get through. He is a child in a mans body who needs to grow up.
His reckless behavior not only affected me, but his daughter, his family and mine. Now maybe he will have to live with the consequences of his actions.
Sorry but I needed to vent and had way to much time on my hands to think . As for me Im sick of him and every thought makes me sick. I just can't wait to get this D over and done with.
I married a loser and hopefully next time I will choose better. Right now is my time and Im going to live it up. I played mother to a grown man and now it's time to take care of myself.
As for my next mini vaca I will be going out of town to see a special friend .
Wow...the revelations after taking this "mini vaca"..
Well you've done all u can and now know when to say when.. just be proud that u tried ur all in making this M work and there's only so much u are willing to put up with...
I'm happy that you are happy!! Keep GALing cuz girl it's a big world out there!!
Yep thats what I say about of this. Those are my final thought's wrong or right. Yes I have dona all I can and more, but had something not to easy to0 work with.
Yes when my D does come final I know I will be able to hold my head up and have nothing to be ashamed of. I have learned so much about myself and have truely changed. So there are many positives on my side to be proud of.
Yes it is a big world and Im enjoying it way to much
Ok, So why does The STBXH have to push and push? H was court order to pay a certain amount and is flat refusing to pay. So now we have to go back to court for contempt. I tired of this nonsence and ready for it to be over with.
I just found H is taking OW on Vaca., but he does not have enough money to pay me? Im so p*ssed my BP is through the ceiling. Well I hope he does not ruin her vaca. like he ruined mine (did I mention I paid for our vaca.).
Im just beyoud myself. Is putting your hands around someones neck considered a crime? Sorry but I have to vent .
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