"have you run Hot and Cold on her?...give it some thought.I feel your to anxious to "run with it" the moment she draws a little nearer.You need to be a bit more aloof and nonchalont."
If you run too hot on her, you're placing a tremendous amount of pressure on her to "make it work". She might feel that her only choices are to be with you either 100%, or not at all. Don't place her in that position yet. You probably won't get the results you want.
Let her chose to be with you on her own.
sloooowwwweee.
JJ
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"Plus I have been trying to compliment her when I can but of course the flowers and card thing is probably not a good idea at this point."
Try complimenting her like you would a friend, not a lover.
Stay away from cards and flowers, unless you're getting good results from them. Which it doesn't sound like you are.
What are her favorite smelling flowers? Maybe do a potpourri with some of them and put them in an inconspicious place, where she won't see them. Sometimes, it helps to to subconscienciously intice a person's senses. Aromatherapy type stuff, you know!
JJ
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Just a bump up and a big thank you for looking at my thread. Check in on me from time to time, will you? I'm trying to read everything that you've posted.
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